DJHJD

DJHJD

Tuesday, February 21, 2006

sic transit Judy

Dear Douglas,

First of all I am really sorry I missed you the other day when I stopped by I was going to see if you were available for lunch. I was going to offer to by.When you did not answer the door I went to Buffalo Wild Wings and had wings....imagine that.I knew you were home as I heard a dog...get silenced and although I wish you had joined me it is okay that you did n't.

I was in the shower, which is a risk one takes when one comes by unannounced.


I really am sorry for my part of our disagreements over the last few months.
There is no disagreement. I asked you to get me meds that I needed; you didn't. I have no problem that you found it undo-able, but when you created an ongoing story about having bought and sent them for six weeks when you never had, you have made it clear that you put more stake in your appearances than in our relationship or your trustworthiness.


I am hoping that you decide that our long term friend ship is more important that us staying angry at each other.
My reliance on you and your ongoing lie put me in the hospital. You never had a reason to be angry with me; I am not angry with you anymore. I've just done a cost/benefit analysis, and it did not work out for continuing the relationship.

As you probably know from my messages I have moved to Houston and am now the Community Relations Director for the Houston 1836 Major League Soccer Team.Opening day is April2 want a VIP pass?
No.


I am looking at renting a condo at 2016 Main and hope to be able to do a lease purchase on it.Our offices are going to be at the Wedge Bldg.and I can walk to work!

Sean is doing okay he has had his share of the same old issues ---to much partying this year and he finally is getting his act together and he does go to AA and is looking to graduate in December.He is planning to move to Houston and live in this area and either teach or go to grad school and or law school he is competing in weighlifting and occasionally judo and doing much better.
I have had the update straight from Sean.


Doug you have been a part of our lives for 14 years and we do not want to loose you over stupid things that were partially my fault and that we did not communicate on very effectivly.
There is no partially in this situation, and no my fault in it. Aggressive and damaging untruth is nearly impossible to get past; it has redefined your communication as being permanently untrustworthy.


Lets make up ...and be friends.
There is no upside for me in this proposal, and I decline.


Let me know,it is easier to forgive than forget.
There is nothing to be forgiven; there is just no value to me in continuing any relationship with you.


Cell is the same
361-xxx-xxxx.
Love you
Judy

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